I was born in Detroit in 1947, and educated in grade school by the Sisters of Charity. They were the kindest women, although I will admit that riding my bike a mile to serve 6:00am Mass at their convent was not my favorite thing to do.
When I entered De La Salle Collegiate in Detroit (DLS), they had many young Brothers who really engaged their students inside and outside of the classroom. They affirmed me. We played handball outside after school, and they would open the gym and play basketball with a group of my friends (yes, a clique of nerds).
Upon graduation, I chose the University of Notre Dame because it offered a course of intensive German to prepare for a week in Innsbruck, Austria. In Europe, my life was opened to architecture, art, opera and classical music. But, I still felt the call to be a Brother. After novitiate, I was assigned to Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft NJ (CBA), teaching world history to a large hall of 100 freshmen! Can you imagine? Then back to my alma mater, where I taught Asian Studies. At both CBA and DLS, I started student soccer programs with other Brothers.
After a two-year sabbatical at the University of Michigan to learn about Asian Studies, I returned to DLS and, reluctantly, became an administrator. But even in that role, I learned that I could win and touch the hearts of all different types of students.
Following a blur of powerful, unexpected experiences, I was assigned to St. Joseph’s Collegiate Institute in Buffalo in campus ministry. One of the most moving experiences for me is the annual Kairos Retreat, where we touch so many hearts. I am so inspired by the seniors who attend. And, I do cry every time I give my speech about God’s friendship in my life.
I’m still not ready to retire. I have too much energy. And I experience holy moments each day with the students, faculty, and staff. Their presence keeps me going, and I know new adventures await.
I am thankful to have been called to be a Christian Brother and to have been touched by so many people.
